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18 fun + practical holiday gifts we love under $25
Whether you can believe it or not, the holidays are practically here and it’s time to kick holiday shopping into overdrive. Maybe you have a white elephant gift exchange coming up, or need to grab something small for your coworker. We have everything you need to win over your friends, family and even that person in your office who has everything. And because the holidays wouldn’t be special without smiles from little ones, we have the perfect gifts for them, too. Don’t stress mama, you got this.
Here are the funniest and cutest gifts our team loves for under $25:
L’Occitane scented soap duo
Tired of that boring hand soap in your powder room? Add an elegant twist to your guest bathroom with this tried-and-true soap duo that smells like sweet fruit. It also feels great on the skin and isn’t overdrying.
Yes, babies have tons of onesies around the house, but do they have one that truly states exactly who they are? No one knows home life better than a newborn and this eco-friendly onesie celebrates that.
Ozeri Nouveaux II electric wine opener
For the mama who likes to host, this wine opener opens up to 60 bottles on a single charge, all with the single push of a button. Plus, it illuminates with a soft blue light when in use and while recharging so you can never lose it among your mountain of kitchen appliances.
Rodeo veggie lunch box
The Rodeo’s insulated interior makes cleaning effortless, and its convenient front pocket provides easy access to snacks, because we all know that kids LOVE snacks more than life itself. Plus, the multi-colors make it easy to accessorize all their fall and winter looks.
More Coffee, Less Judgement ceramic mug
Join any mommy group on Facebook and you’re bound to see someone judging a mama for the craziest things. It’s annoying, and frankly so uncalled for. Gift the mama friends in your life a mug that reminds them to enjoy more coffee and less judgment. It’s also the perfect gift for your coffee-loving coworker.
Spin Master Games baa baa bubbles
Make it easy for little ones to be entertained all day. Simply feed the Bubbles the sheep treats when you play and her wool made of real bubbles grows. But be careful: If Bubbles is allergic to what she eats, she’ll sneeze, blasting her bubbles and you’ll lose your tile.
Good Day kitchen towel
Life has its fair share of challenges, but it’s not all doom and gloom. This kitchen towel offers a simple (yet very important) reminder to look on the bright side and have a good day, even when your morning routine feels out of hand.
Fisher-price s’more fun campfire
If you’re looking for gifts for the kid obsessed with make-believe, look no further. Let them pretend to roast S’mores with artificial wood sticks, marshmallows, chocolate and graham crackers. Bonus: The gift-ready package is also perfect for storage, so that’s one less thing you have to worry about.
Typically you don’t go to drugstores to find comfortable slippers, but these heated slippers are a cut above the rest because they combine soothing warmth with aromatherapy. When heated, the dried French lavender inside releases a relaxing aroma that’s perfect for helping you unwind after a long day with the family.
Elmer’s Color Changing slime kit
Slime is one of those gifts that never gets old. Who can resist the gooey, slimy texture that sparks creativity? What makes this set so fun is that when you shine the included UV light on the slime, it changes colors. It also comes with a glue slime activator that eliminates the need for lens solution and baking soda.
Empowered Women canvas tote bag
An empowered tote is something your bestie will adore but never wants to spend the money on. We like this one because it has an interior pocket (with a zipper!) to house tiny items that seem to get lost and keeps the inside organized. Also, the 18″ x 15″ size is the perfect size—it’s not too small or too bulky.
Tiger Tribe detective set
Looking for new toys for car rides and quiet-time play? Let your little ones use their best detective skills to solve a variety of crimes while learning the essentials of observation, investigation, lateral thinking, code cracking and fingerprint analysis.
Nostalgia grilled cheese sandwich toaster
Who doesn’t love the perfect grilled cheese? We’re not here to debate you on this, but a grilled cheese that’s soft, yet crunchy on the sides, and slightly gooey is the best winter lunch. These toasting baskets hold the sandwich in place while it cooks so you never have to worry about flipping it at the right moment. There are also adjustable heat settings to customize your toast—in case you like yours a bit more on the burnt side.
Olababy silicone steambowl
This bowl is made from toxin-free, food-grade silicone that acts as both a steamer and serving bowl, combined into one. And as one Amazon reviewer noted, it stands up to everything, including both baby and toddler teeth. We’re obsessed!
The Astrology of You and Me book
Newsflash: you’re not going to like everyone, and everyone may not like you. But, we still have to tolerate each other and this book teaches you how to live peacefully with those around you—no matter their sign. And even if the giftee isn’t into astrology, creative minds will still love the beautiful illustrations throughout.
WeeFarers original baby sunglasses
Here’s one for the stylish kid who always looks so well put together. These chic, bendable frames include FDA-approved impact-resistant lenses so kids can drop them practically anywhere and they won’t break or crack. Bonus: there’s a guaranteed free replacement for one year if they are lost or broken! Genius!
Glossier Balm Dotcom lip salve
Dry skin is so real, and when you’re in the thick of the winter you need something that’s formulated with heavy-duty moisturizers like castor oil, beeswax, and lanolin. Users will love that it leaves lips looking smooth and hydrated, not shiny and tacky.
Tocca crema veloce holiday
What happens when you combine scents of sophisticated fruits and florals? You end up with a trio hand soaps that leave your skin beautifully fragrant. We love that each tube is small enough to fit into a diaper bag or clutch while mama is on the go.
To the mama stretching every dollar this Christmas—I see you
A month before Christmas the brakes on my 15-year-old sedan started making a strange noise. The bill at the auto shop came to $2,400. That’s a lot of money for my family. My Christmas shopping list was immediately slashed, the vacation we’d been planning for the new year (our first real vacation ever) drifted further into the future.
Every day I look at my family and I think about how lucky we are. Our son is healthy and that is priceless. We have a modest home filled with everything we need and wiggle room for some little luxuries (hello Starbucks and Disney+). And importantly, in an area where unemployment is steadily climbing (and with a spouse who is about to be out of work) I still have a job.
But when that $2,400 bill came my usual gratitude was overtaken by resentment. Because as much as I appreciate what we have, I resent how much our culture is focused on the aspirational when for so many of us, even average seems unattainable.
I resent the fact that I am still paying off my student loans.
I resent how incomes haven’t risen with housing costs.
I resent how childcare costs eat so much of my income.
But mostly I just resent how society is squeezing parents for every dollar while simultaneously shaming us for not having enough of them.
So to the mama who wishes she had a bigger budget for her kids’ Christmas presents, I see you. I know that you’re trying so hard and your kids know it, too. Please know that the magic of Christmas is not in the cost, it’s in the memories. Please give yourself the gift of a guilt-free Christmas.
To the mama who is working overtime and picking up side gigs, I see you. I see your hustle, your ambition and your love for your family, and this Christmas I want you to try to give yourself a break. Even just a small one, because even mamas are human and you need to rest, too.
To the mama who is running a household on only her partner’s income, I see you. I know it can feel impossible (that’s because it nearly is). I also know you are supporting your spouse in their career because that’s what is best for your family right now. I know that you are working so hard at home and that sometimes it feels like one income isn’t enough. Please give yourself credit for all the unpaid labor you are doing.
To the mama who can rely only on her own income, I see you. You’re solo parenting, you’re the sole provider, and you are amazing. You are strong. You are bearing so much responsibility and I want you to know that you are more than enough for your children.
To the mama who can’t afford to live where she wants to, I see you. Maybe you always dreamed of raising your kids in the big city, but economic realities have relocated you to a far-flung suburb. I see you out there, doing what is best for your family on a budget smaller than you’d like, in a city smaller than you’d like. Mama, know that you are a gift to your community.
To the mama struggling to pay for IVF: I see you. And I see how bad you want this. I want it for you, too. I wish you didn’t have to turn to loans and credit cards and crowdfunding for this. Please know that motherhood takes many forms and be gentle with yourself this season.
To the mama struggling to pay off a birth: I see you. And I’m angry for you. I am so angry and perplexed by a system that would bill new parents astronomical sums at a time in their lives when they can least afford it. Giving birth should not put people into debt.
To the mama who has reached her limit, I see you. When you’re waiting for payday, every minute seems like forever. When your card is declined at the checkout that moment lasts a lifetime. Please, accept help if you need it. There is kindness in the world for you.
To the mama using SNAP or visiting the food bank this season, I see you. And I’m proud of you. I’m proud of you for navigating this challenging time in your life because figuring out how to do this isn’t easy. I’m proud of you for being such a good mother and making sure that your kids have nutritious food.
To the mama getting help from her family, I see you. It can be hard to accept help from your parents when you are a parent yourself, but please do try to see it as a gift. They love you so much that they want to support you, and you can honor that by seeing yourself as worthy of support.
To the mama who is not getting help from her family, I see you. It can be painful to watch your friends and acquaintances get financial help from their families when yours is not in a position to do the same. It’s human to be envious when someone’s dad gives them a down payment, but the best gift you can give yourself is to focus on your own kids and non-financial gifts you are giving them every day.
To the mama who feels like her life doesn’t live up to Instagram, I see you. I understand the pain of scrolling through social media, wondering why it seems like everyone else has a nice home and can take their kids on vacation when you can’t. Give yourself the gift of unfollowing or turning off social media.
To the mama who feels like she’ll never get out of student loan debt, I see you, I am you, and I can tell you there’s hope. For years my student loans have kept me down. They are the reason I am driving a 15-year-old, money pit of a car in the first place. But by the end of 2019 they will finally, mercifully be paid off. Most of the student debt in America is held by women. This is an issue impacting a generation of mothers. You are not alone.
This viral photo proves that moms are *always* working
At Motherly we know that mothers can and do balance business needs with the needs of their children every day. We do it every day, and we know that mothers at other companies are doing it every day, too—but this balancing act often isn’t talked about.
This week a COO and father, Seth Morales, went viral for drawing attention to how hard his wife, and all working moms, work outside of regular business hours and outside offices.
Morales posted a photo of his wife comforting their child in a hospital bed, writing, “I took this picture of my wife and son this morning. Too often working moms don’t get enough credit. I’m sharing this because I want people to know it’s possible. You can be great at work and at home.”
He continues: “But sacrifices need to be made before/after normal working hours. The idea of working 40+ hours in the office isn’t realistic. You’d be surprised at how productive my wife is from her smartphone while running errands. But she constantly thinks she’s falling short with everything. Balancing life is messy and difficult. For all you working parents out there please have grace for yourself, it’s a process.”
Morales is right about many things: 40 hours of butt-in-seat office work is not realistic for many parents. Our kids have needs Monday through Friday, 9-5 that we need to be there for sometimes. Clearly, Morales’ child was in need of medical attention and that’s the kind of thing that parents need to be able to give their attention to, whether it happens during regular business hours or not. And Morales is also right that parents are making sacrifices, working before and after traditional office hours and making the most of small pockets of time. It sound like Morales’ wife is multitasking a lot of time time, running her work from her “smartphone while running errands.”
It’s great that this powerful COO is sharing the struggles that working parents face and that a working mother’s spouse is recognizing her efforts on a personal level. But we would challenge partners like Morales: If you see your partner trying so hard to do everything and feeling like she’s never doing enough, perhaps it is time to ask yourself if YOU are doing enough.
Research shows that among heterosexual couples, women simply do more of the unpaid work of child-rearing than men do, and it hurts our careers, our families and our relationships (and that if men did just 50 minutes more labor at home every day we could close the gender gap.)
We would also challenge business leaders like Morales: If you see your employees are making the sacrifices that he mentions here, working before and after working hours and feeling like they are merely surviving, not thriving, maybe your culture needs to catch up with the needs of employees.
And finally, we challenge any working mother who “constantly thinks she’s falling short with everything” to drop some balls and delegate at home. Get the store-bought muffins and share the load of managing your family load with your partner.
Morales is right, we can be great at work and at home, but not if we’re not supported at work and at home.