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It’s time to redefine the meaning of motherhood

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Posted on: December 12, 2019

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Amy Taylor-Kabbaz is a journalist and mother of three who wanted to know why motherhood had turned her world upside down. After her first child was born she started researching everything she could to find the root cause of why so many women still feel isolated and confused when they become mothers. Now her eldest […]

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The three simple steps to raising resilient children

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Posted on: December 12, 2019

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Hugh Van Cuylenberg was a teacher in Australia before he travelled to Northern India with his then-girlfriend and volunteered in a school in the foothills of the Himalayas. What he learnt from the children in that village inspired him to research resilience, and to found The Resilience Project.  Now he’s released a book: The Resilience Project, […]

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There are less just two weeks left until the end of the month—and the decade. We’re in shock here at Motherly and we’re sure you are too. It feels like it just snuck up on us this year!

Well we’re with you on the endless to-do list that usually pops up at this time of year (or, let’s be honest—any time of year when you’re a parent). It’s a lot, but trust us when we say you’ve got this, mama.

If you’ve been missing the news this week while you run around trying to get everything done don’t worry…we’re keeping an eye on all the headlines you need to see.

Take a moment for yourself today and check out the headlines that are making us smile this week:

This mama edited her deployed husband into her Christmas card 

Danielle Cobo is a mama to twin boys and a proud military spouse. Her husband is currently serving overseas on a year-long deployment. He wasn’t home for this year’s Christmas card photo shoot, so Cobo’s photographer, Shannon Sturgeon, did some photoshop magic to get the whole family in frame and the resulting picture is going viral.

“I am extremely proud of him and grateful for what he’s doing because I think there’s a purpose greater than our own,” Cobo told Tampa NBC affiliate WFLA. “This year’s deployment has been the toughest. By the time he returns, my husband will have missed half of our twins’ lives. With that said, I wouldn’t change a thing. I’m so proud of him.”

When the card went viral, Cobo started getting messages from all over the United States from people who could relate to how she is feeling this holiday season. “I love the holidays,” Cobo told WTVT. “I love Christmas cards. I save Christmas cards. It’s just a way of showing people that though we are apart, we are a family.”

Baby girl goes viral for adorable ‘mean-mugging’ photos 

Newborn photos are supposed to be adorable but this baby is looking adorably angry in hers. Baby Luna is taking over the internet thanks to the hilarious expression captured during her professional photoshoot.

“She’s been mean-mugging since day one,” Luna’s dad Christian Musa told Good Morning America. “She’s either mean-mugging non-stop, or just unimpressed.”

Photographer Justine Tuhy says that while Luna (who was born November 15) was totally content during their photo session, “She just gave me the stare down the entire time as well.”

This mom went viral for loving Christmas (and Wawa) too much

Mary Katherine Backstrom is the mom and writer behind MomBabble’s website and social media accounts, and this week she went viral for the most hilarious reason.

Going live from her car in the parking lot of a Wawa gas station, Backstrom cry-laughed into her phone’s camera as she explained how embarrassingly carried away with the holiday spirit she’d become. She was in the Wawa and saw the woman in line next to her only had a ginger ale, so she offered to pay for it to pay the Christmas spirit forward. Then, she came out of the gas station and saw a man washing her car’s windshield.

“‘This is my favorite part of humanity! I love Christmas so much, thank you for doing this,'” Backstrom recalls saying to the guy. “And I gave him a hug.”

The problem? It wasn’t her car. It was that dude’s car. She just hugged and thanked him for cleaning his own car. 😂

She was so embarrassed that she just walked to her own car and pretended like nothing happened, then recorded her video and now the whole world knows about it.

Keep spreading the holiday magic Mary Katherine! You’re hilarious.

Viral PSA reminds us to be kind to retail workers this time of year 

Whitney Fleming is the mom and writer behind “Playdates on Friday” and this week she’s going viral for reminding the world to be nice to retail workers this time of year.

In a post that has been shared over 10,000 times, Fleming recalls a recent trip to Target. While chatting with her cashier she learned he’d had a pretty rough shift, as some moms who were stressed out during their Christmas shopping had taken it out on him.

“As the young man handed me my receipt, I handed over the gift card. ‘Have a frappuccino on me. It’s for dealing with all of us crazy, stressed-out moms.’

‘Oh, no, ma’am. I’m sorry, I shouldn’t have said anything,’ he stammered. You could see he was nervous about getting in trouble.

‘No, I’m sorry, I told him. ‘Have a great holiday.'”

Thanks for the reminder, Whitney.


This mama edited her deployed husband into her Christmas card 

Danielle Cobo is a mama to twin boys and a proud military spouse. Her husband is currently serving overseas on a year-long deployment. He wasn’t home for this year’s Christmas card photo shoot, so Cobo’s photographer, Shannon Sturgeon, did some photoshop magic to get the whole family in frame and the resulting picture is going viral.

“I am extremely proud of him and grateful for what he’s doing because I think there’s a purpose greater than our own,” Cobo told Tampa NBC affiliate WFLA. “This year’s deployment has been the toughest. By the time he returns, my husband will have missed half of our twins’ lives. With that said, I wouldn’t change a thing. I’m so proud of him.”

When the card went viral, Cobo started getting messages from all over the United States from people who could relate to how she is feeling this holiday season. “I love the holidays,” Cobo told WTVT. “I love Christmas cards. I save Christmas cards. It’s just a way of showing people that though we are apart, we are a family.”

Baby girl goes viral for adorable ‘mean-mugging’ photos 

Newborn photos are supposed to be adorable but this baby is looking adorably angry in hers. Baby Luna is taking over the internet thanks to the hilarious expression captured during her professional photoshoot.

“She’s been mean-mugging since day one,” Luna’s dad Christian Musa told Good Morning America. “She’s either mean-mugging non-stop, or just unimpressed.”

Photographer Justine Tuhy says that while Luna (who was born November 15) was totally content during their photo session, “She just gave me the stare down the entire time as well.”

This mom went viral for loving Christmas (and Wawa) too much

Mary Katherine Backstrom is the mom and writer behind MomBabble’s website and social media accounts, and this week she went viral for the most hilarious reason.

Going live from her car in the parking lot of a Wawa gas station, Backstrom cry-laughed into her phone’s camera as she explained how embarrassingly carried away with the holiday spirit she’d become. She was in the Wawa and saw the woman in line next to her only had a ginger ale, so she offered to pay for it to pay the Christmas spirit forward. Then, she came out of the gas station and saw a man washing her car’s windshield.

“‘This is my favorite part of humanity! I love Christmas so much, thank you for doing this,'” Backstrom recalls saying to the guy. “And I gave him a hug.”

The problem? It wasn’t her car. It was that dude’s car. She just hugged and thanked him for cleaning his own car. 😂

She was so embarrassed that she just walked to her own car and pretended like nothing happened, then recorded her video and now the whole world knows about it.

Keep spreading the holiday magic Mary Katherine! You’re hilarious.

Viral PSA reminds us to be kind to retail workers this time of year 

Whitney Fleming is the mom and writer behind “Playdates on Friday” and this week she’s going viral for reminding the world to be nice to retail workers this time of year.

In a post that has been shared over 10,000 times, Fleming recalls a recent trip to Target. While chatting with her cashier she learned he’d had a pretty rough shift, as some moms who were stressed out during their Christmas shopping had taken it out on him.

“As the young man handed me my receipt, I handed over the gift card. ‘Have a frappuccino on me. It’s for dealing with all of us crazy, stressed-out moms.’

‘Oh, no, ma’am. I’m sorry, I shouldn’t have said anything,’ he stammered. You could see he was nervous about getting in trouble.

‘No, I’m sorry, I told him. ‘Have a great holiday.'”

Thanks for the reminder, Whitney.


https://www.mother.ly/life/i-wish-my-mother-in-law-could-see-what-an-amazing-dad-her-son-is

The holiday season always makes me a bit sentimental. I especially think of my mother-in-law, who left us way too early and way too fast, because she loved the holidays. She passed away when I was only three months pregnant with our first child two years ago and I always had this gut feeling that she was at peace because she knew her two boys were taken care of and on their way to creating their own families. But that doesn’t mean I don’t selfishly wish she were here to see the amazing dad her son has become.

I knew from the beginning my husband was good with kids. Way before we even planned a life together and while casually dating in New York City, I knew. He cares a lot, he listens a lot and he remembers everything. Those three things make him the most thoughtful and loving person I’ve ever met. Add to the mix that he has an insane imagination and a great sense of humor and he is legit the center of attention whenever there are children around. The first time I saw him hold our friend’s newborn, my ovaries twinkled and I knew he would be the father of my children.

I found out I was pregnant with our son because of my mother-in-law. We were on our honeymoon and I dreamt that she was in the hospital and I told her, “I have a little secret to share, you’re going to be a grandma again!” I woke up sobbing and didn’t have the guts to tell my husband about my dream because I was mortified about having dreamt about her in a hospital, but also so sad because I thought I would never be able to say those words out loud to her.

We flew back home and as soon as we landed my husband got the call that she was in the hospital. My heart skipped a beat. Off he went to see her and the second he stepped outside of the house, I peed on a stick—it was positive.

Shortly after finding out I went to visit her in hospice and at barely 6 weeks pregnant I shared the good news. At some point she told all the nurses there and whenever I came to visit they would let me nap on the bed next to her. She spent the rest of her days coming up with name suggestions for us.

My husband always said that me being pregnant during the hardest time of his life made him see the light at the end of the tunnel. He was losing the woman who gave him life while I was growing the life we created together.

After her passing and my delivery, we found ourselves talking about how we never knew how hard it is to really be a parent. We made sure to tell our three other parents how grateful we are that they changed diapers, cleaned bottles and stayed up at night while we were tiny. I so wish I could tell her that, but I can’t.

We talk about my mother-in-law to my son all the time, just like we do about his other grandparents. We share what she used to like—cooking apple pie, being in nature, playing with her dog. But we also slowly introduce the concept of her not being physically with us. Every time my son sees the photo we have framed of her after hiking Mount Katahdin in her 70s—something I can’t even imagine doing now in my mid-30s—he squeals her name in excitement letting us know he recognizes her, despite never having met her.

And my heart breaks because I wish she could be here to teach him about nature and go bird watching together in Maine, something they are both weirdly into despite the generational gap they have.

Today, while our now 2-year-old napped and I loafed with my very pregnant belly, my husband decided it would be a great idea to make a house out of a cardboard box for our son to play with. Hours later we, as a family, were having the times of our lives playing with the house and I couldn’t help but sob quietly as my two dudes passed a basketball through the window, wishing that she could see this with her own eyes.

I truly would not be able to do this whole being a parent thing without my husband.

When I stress, he calms me down.

When I’m out of ideas for entertainment, he invents a new game for all of us to play.

When I can’t change a diaper because my current pregnancy has me constantly gagging, he makes a new rule that he will change all poopy diapers until the new babies come.

He’s the love of my life, he’s my son’s hero, and I know a big part of that is because of who raised him.

I see my mother-in-law in my husband. I see her in my son. And I hope to see her in our two little girls.

I just wish I could see her seeing them because I know she’d be so proud.